Our second day of Messiah kindergarten begins with a review of the most important lesson of all for Messiahs:

I have told you before not to think for yourself. … I say to you, practice with Me today. Do not think for yourself. Ask Me in all things and leave all things to Me.

Today’s reading focuses on love and forgiveness. The tips on how to forgive are exquisite. Read slowly. Take today’s reading deeply into your heart, all the way up to and including the very last paragraph. Don’t miss a thing.

After you have read the reading once, you may want to read it again. It might also be helpful to take notes. Anything you can do to remember today’s reading is helpful, because you must remember it before you can put it into practice.

One teaching from today’s reading is how to be with another when there is a difference or disagreement that needs to be addressed. Often, when we rely on the inner Teacher, we are guided to drop our point of view and let the other have his way. However, sometimes a situation needs to be faced. Today’s reading shares specific instructions on how to do that.

Also, clarity is brought to a common spiritual confusion through today’s reading. Since spiritual students often confuse themselves with the body-personality-mind, they sometimes think that they are personally responsible for everything they experience. For example, if a relative is a mean alcoholic, they think healing their mind will also heal the relative.

When we heal our minds, grace is generated through the creative principle, but whether that grace affects our alcoholic cousin or something else in the world is beyond our control and concern. Many factors feed into the creative principle to determine how grace affects the picture of the world.

As today’s reading says:

Do not be confused. You are not responsible for your brother’s place, but if you cannot forgive him his place, you are lost from yours.

If we experience any upset regarding another person, it is our opportunity for healing. However, the purpose of healing isn’t to change the other person. It is for our own awakening, an awakening that is helpful to consciousness as a whole.

(For related information, reference the tips for ACIM Workbook Lessons 345 and 353.)